How to be "successful" in our society system while having ADS and ADHD?

2021.11.29 06:31 YungLynIssc How to be "successful" in our society system while having ADS and ADHD?

Hello my friends! So this will be a longer story I think and I hope you'll find the time to read it and I can get some advice or opinion because I just feel like sharing it or talk about it because it's hard to find someone to talk about it IRL. Even therapist seem to not really understand and/or don't have the time to deal with it.
My whole life, I was struggling and trying my best to adjust, adapt and just fitting in. I'm 32 now and I'm pretty much exhausted and can't put any energy into adjusting anymore. When I was a kid and later a teenager, I believed that you just have to work on yourself to be "successful", be it in social relationships or work or what ever. So I did that for the longest part of my life until I had to realize that it doesn't really work for me, since it is so exhausting. Everything is so exhausting. The truth is, I'm not able to maintain social relationships because they exhaust me, because I either can be "me" and/or I can't handle other peoples emotions. Other peoples emotion feel overwhelming to me and therefore exhaust me, especially negative ones. But even positive emotions are not as connecting to me as they should be, means if other people are happy and they expect me to be happy with them, I have a hard time doing that. Not because I don't want to or I don't like to (and that's how they are interpreting my behavior in these situations), but because I just can't or I don't know how to behave without being fake. So at the end, because of of this social issues, I'm pretty lonely. While I also feel like being lonely is not a problem (anymore). Maybe I just got used to it. So I don't really feel like it's a problem for me to not having friends while at the same time, I feel sad and kind of jealous seeing people liking each other, making friends, having fun together, freely talking to each other, stuff like that. But I feel like struggling with social relationships and interactions becomes a much bigger problem if it comes to your career. I switched my job 2 times already and I feel like switching it again while I don't know to what because I can't think of any job that would fulfill me and make me happy. Mainly because of my social struggles. At this point, don't get me wrong, I don't have social anxiety or something. But it's kinda frustrating for me because it's so exhausting. So I don't know what to do. I feel like the most happiest life for me would be living alone far, far away where I don't have to see any people and/or have to deal with them. While at the same time that sounds like such a pointless and lonely life to me. So I wish there would be one person I could live with, while I can't think of living with another person. To make things more clear, I don't hate myself or something like that. But I do have "depressive meltdown", means if I get overwhelmed (which happens pretty quick), I'm not getting angry or aggressive or anything like that, instead I'm getting depressed (exhausted, powerless, tired, quite, confused, unmotivated and so on) and need quite some time to recover from that. That's (also) why finding a fitting job seems kinda hard if not impossible to me. Because (of course) I don't want to be depressed, I just want to live my life in peace and I can't understand why people can't just leave me alone and want me to work on myself to become "a normal person" while I don't have the energy to do that (anymore) and to be honest, I don't want to do that because I just want to be me. So it kind of confused me and/or frustrates me that I can't just be me and having social relationships, find a job that fulfills me and just... live a normal life. There was a time where I thought about giving up and even killing myself but at the same time, there is no real point doing that because I feel like the problem is not that I am not fitting into this world but more like not fitting into this society and this society doesn't equal this world, so there must be a place for me somewhere, right? I just have to find it somehow? And if I could find it, I could live a happy and fulfilled life. So now that my head feels like empty and overwhelmed at the same time, I'm gonna end this here. Thank you for your attention.
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